While visiting a Christmas village in Switzerland, Donnie was captivated by a simple yet powerful tradition: trees adorned with handwritten wishes from people of all ages. Inspired, Donnie brought the idea home to Winchester, determined to create a space where her own community could share their hopes, dreams, and even their burdens. This vision blossomed into the Wishing Trees, now a beloved feature of Winchester’s Winter Village, thanks to the dedication of Donnie, her daughter Kaleigh Fincham, and their family.
Planting Roots in the Community
In this episode of The Valley Today, host Janet Michael sits down with Kaleigh and Donnie from The Ivy Chest / The Ivy Room to uncover the story behind the Wishing Trees and the Kinder Village. Click here to listen. The conversation reveals how the project quickly grew from a handful of trees to a central part of the town’s holiday festivities. With the support of local sponsors like Meadows Farms, which donates the trees, and organizations such as Froggy’s Closet, the Wishing Trees have become a collaborative effort that brings together businesses, volunteers, and families.
Wishes That Speak from the Heart
As the conversation unfolds, listeners hear touching anecdotes about the wishes themselves. Some are lighthearted—children wishing for cookies or dinosaurs—while others are deeply personal, expressing hopes for healing, reconciliation, or simply more time with loved ones. The anonymity of the process, Donnie explains, gives people the freedom to express feelings they might otherwise keep hidden. Reading these wishes, Kaleigh and Janet agree, offers a window into the community’s collective soul, fostering empathy and connection among neighbors.
A Legacy of Giving Back
The Wishing Trees are more than a seasonal attraction; they are a tribute to Donnie’s late mother and sister, whose experiences with hardship and resilience inspired the family’s commitment to giving back. The Kinder Village, with its children’s activities and festive atmosphere, further extends this legacy, ensuring that every family—regardless of means—can experience the magic of the holidays. Despite challenges, including funding and logistics, the family remains steadfast in their mission, relying on sponsors and volunteers rather than city funding to keep the tradition alive.
Looking to the Future
The trio reflect on the impact of the Wishing Trees and brainstorm ways to expand the project, such as displaying wishes throughout December or creating a video archive of the notes. Their conversation underscores a central message: small acts of kindness and community spirit can transform lives. In Winchester, the Wishing Trees stand as a testament to the power of hope, generosity, and the enduring bonds of family and community.
